It really seems that now
career-oriented women are more upset for their marriages. There are many
different reasons, why someone does not find the right person, especially at a
right age.
It is uniquely true that men are
prepared to work & do their jobs to earn the bread of his family. Whereas,
women are said to work inside the house and take good care for her husband,
children, family & home. But today Muslim women became work-oriented with high-reaching
goals in their life. For them marriage is some sort of an official contract,
who is having more degrees to stay strong.
It’s really hard for Mr.
Right to welcome a work alcoholic woman. This is one of the threats why job
oriented women get overage, their demands for their Mr. Right changes and time
passes by. Girls in their mid 20’s start focusing on their future
accomplishments and career. They go in to professional degrees like Law,
Doctor, Manager, Doctorate, Dentist, which shatters their thinking of getting
married and make them career oriented. Amazingly, such girls even find it very
smart to share that they don’t know how to cook & they have never been into
house hold activities & still think of their “Prince Charles”.
Home is not a home when the
husband comes home to a dark; unlock the house, totally empty, finding
something to eat by himself & gets worried about his working wife &
children. Girls should prioritize to get married on the right time even if they
are into any professional study. Being ambitious is not bad for either a man or
a woman, but women should prefer the prosperity of her house, her husband &
her kids.
Most men prefer educated
women with good deeds to care about the home & look after their kids. They
need a woman who is adept at household chores and look good care of future
children. Surprisingly, this is not possible or either easy for a working
woman.
Although Islam has not
restricted women to be educated like men & do jobs, an important part of a
successful marriage is to carry the marriage Sunnah. Men generally prefer women
who are talented enough to handle household work efficiently, fulfilling their
family & mother services in the long run.
Wisely said by Sh. Yasir
Qadhi: "Men don't think too deep. Feed them, love
them, give him what he needs and he'll be your slave."
2 comments :
Nicely written. Totally agree.
Thank you so much!
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