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Friday 1 February 2013

Muslim women in high power careers face being singled out!



It really seems that now career-oriented women are more upset for their marriages. There are many different reasons, why someone does not find the right person, especially at a right age.

It is uniquely true that men are prepared to work & do their jobs to earn the bread of his family. Whereas, women are said to work inside the house and take good care for her husband, children, family & home. But today Muslim women became work-oriented with high-reaching goals in their life. For them marriage is some sort of an official contract, who is having more degrees to stay strong.

It’s really hard for Mr. Right to welcome a work alcoholic woman. This is one of the threats why job oriented women get overage, their demands for their Mr. Right changes and time passes by. Girls in their mid 20’s start focusing on their future accomplishments and career. They go in to professional degrees like Law, Doctor, Manager, Doctorate, Dentist, which shatters their thinking of getting married and make them career oriented. Amazingly, such girls even find it very smart to share that they don’t know how to cook & they have never been into house hold activities & still think of their “Prince Charles”.

Home is not a home when the husband comes home to a dark; unlock the house, totally empty, finding something to eat by himself & gets worried about his working wife & children. Girls should prioritize to get married on the right time even if they are into any professional study. Being ambitious is not bad for either a man or a woman, but women should prefer the prosperity of her house, her husband & her kids.

Most men prefer educated women with good deeds to care about the home & look after their kids. They need a woman who is adept at household chores and look good care of future children. Surprisingly, this is not possible or either easy for a working woman.

Although Islam has not restricted women to be educated like men & do jobs, an important part of a successful marriage is to carry the marriage Sunnah. Men generally prefer women who are talented enough to handle household work efficiently, fulfilling their family & mother services in the long run.

Wisely said by Sh. Yasir Qadhi: "Men don't think too deep. Feed them, love them, give him what he needs and he'll be your slave."

2 comments :

Aitzaz Haider said...

Nicely written. Totally agree.

Sarooj Noor said...

Thank you so much!