Strangely but sharing the most
painful trauma of this current society!
No matter how much the girl is educated,
decent and trustworthy, if she is not smart, tall, have beautiful hair or feet,
men don’t marry them. Rejecting a girl or a woman only because that she is not
tall enough (5’2, 5’3, or 5’4), she is bulky & she does not have sexy
looks, sounds painful & is even extremely agonizing for that women
& her mother.
Why men & their family don’t realize, that the
girl didn't make her look like this, Allah Al Mighty has
created everyone Equally. Why people don’t realize that, it’s really
hurting & dreadful for that girl & her family who has been
constantly rejected because she is not pretty!
Attractiveness, smartness & style
do not remains forever, what remains forever is the understanding between a
wife & husband, which is only built on good character &
heartfelt acceptance.
I really don’t understand, why men
& their mother demands for another Aishwarya Rai. According to this
modern era, what preferred is: “My Bahu (daughter -in- law) or wife should be
extremely beautiful & as presentable as a decoration piece!” Let’s go
with the most phenomenal example of Amitabh Bachchan and Jaya Bachchan. They
are happily living for years & will remain with each other forever.
Both accepted one another without having any sanction of height, figure and
looks!
Age is also another issue which is made
problematic, although it’s not in reality. Big Age difference (10 to 15)
between husband & wife is normally considered to be very strange
& weird. Why don’t we neglect this nonsense criterion if both husband
& wife are happy & satisfied with each other? We should pray
for their happy life rather than pointing out the negatives.
It would be wiser to say that a Man is
lucky if he had a good life partner, concerning her clean desires, beautiful
nature, respect for elders and admiration for her life partner in every phase
of life. No matter if she is tall, pretty, hot or sexy.
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"Among the Muslims the most perfect, as regards his faith, is the one whose Character is Excellent, & the best among you are those who treat their wives well " Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) |
If she fulfils all the desires
said by her husband, her husband will definitely appreciate & love her,
without keeping in mind that my wife is not tall or smart enough! A true
husband is the one who loves her wife not on the base that she is good looking,
tall, attractive or else, but on the base of her good & faithful deeds
for him & his family!
Just think that one day that man will have
a daughter too & he will see how dreadful it is to see someone
rejecting her own daughter on the base of figure, height & smartness!
Think & share!
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